"A Thing Called...LIFE" - I read it somewhere. Just four words written by someone but had a lot of meaning and tells a lot about that someone especially when these words are set as a Status....
As soon as I read this status, a number of thoughts rolled up in my mind and I felt its truthfulness. Truly, Life is a thing we don't know; it cannot be explained. It gives us so many lessons, teaches us at every point. Doesn't matter we want to learn or not, it let us learn whatever it wants. It let us meet different sorts of people - some lovable while some not. They all teach us something new. We gain our experience and knowledge either by watching others or by facing a situation on our own. And how people behave or react in a situation help us to learn more. This whole life is just about learning, gaining experiences.
In fact that someone (owner of this status) has learned a lot through interacting with people. As much as I know her, she has a lot of friends. Although she don't want to increase the number of friends in life but still she does the same and get attached. However, she has learned to hide her feelings to some extent and to adjust among people she don't like but from inside she always want to be with people she loves and she get hurt a lot. This is life which made her strong enough to face the separation of her loved ones.
Generally, Life teaches us good things but sometimes its not the same case. She used to be a very good friend of mine. I used to share a lot of things with her. I remember the sleepless nights spent with her when we were just talking and sharing our feelings. She always hide few personal things but it was OK for me because it is her life and its her right to keep her life secret. However she used to share her feelings or used to discuss her problems sometimes in indirect way. But I loved to be the part of her life. I enjoyed being with her.
Suddenly, something happened. I still don't know what but she got apart from me. She stopped sharing her thoughts. Some mistakes from both the sides, and our friendship ended up at just two known people. We pretended to be friends but we both knew that we were not. Whenever I think of this, I feel that I should have talked to her directly. Maybe she was going through a bad phase and in spite of being angry with her, talking to her might have saved our relationship.I feel that being angry with her made our relation worse. I knew that she is sensitive and she hides, so I should have asked her. Although I did the same but it was too late. She had been too far from me till that time and talking to her at that time was of no use. I will always regret for my part of mistakes. I would say my part of mistakes because if I was her friend, she could have come to me to talk about the growing distance between us. However she didn't tried it. But again, as I said maybe she was going through a bad phase, so I think it was my fault.
But whatever happened, whatever is going on I will remember her in my life for the time we were together and for the time we were close. She was and she will be a good friend of mine in spite of all the misunderstandings and distances. I hope she will be smiling always :)